Female sexuality entails a deep secret within it. The most profound female identity is actually hidden inside the connections between a woman and her body and being. It is therefore essential for every woman to find the healthy and most truthful connection to herself on a sexual level, in order to be able to fully comprehend herself.
The issue of sexuality tends to be confusing to us women; we don’t always know how to express our needs. Sometimes we feel as though we don’t have any at all, or that our needs are not as important as those of a man. Other times, conditional male sexuality, characterized by excessive sexual images and a more aggressive sexuality, causes us to recoil and contract into a non-sexual, even cold, nature that prefers to give up a sexual life only to avoid contact with men that do not truly understand us.
Another form of disharmonic expression in female sexuality is when we, as women, in wanting to be loved, put on a mask of sexuality, a mask of wild, uninhibited and passionate sexuality. We turn into the sexy women we think men would want, just so that we can feel some love and giving from their part.
Sexual conditioning such as pain, fear, closing up, or coldness is treatable and can be released. Once a woman discovers herself as the love that she is, and once she allows herself to be the powerful intensity that she is, any man she meets melts right into her and is happy to be present in the openness of her heart. He will begin to change himself and start to discover his true nature as eternal giving and love.
This way sexuality becomes a gate to contact, intimacy and transformation in life, elements we all need in order to be full of life and vitality.