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Why do couples divorce or separate?<\/span><\/h2>\n<\/div><\/div>[vc_empty_space height=”18px”][vc_column_text]\n
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A few days ago, I met a couple that asked for counselling, one of them decided to break up the marriage and this decision brought chaos and a big crisis to the household.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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I didn’t know what I was going to meet, if they were truly at the verge of breakup, or was there a possibility to heal the rapture and remain together?<\/span><\/p>\n

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What was very clear and striking to me was that when I met them underneath the pain, the tears, the mutual complaints – there was love.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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A Love that both parties were blind to feel or indeed put their attention on, a love that turned into co-dependency, into repetitive complaints and a sense of guilt, a love that turned into anger, frustration, and separation, but underneath all these the core, the essence was love.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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I thought to myself while seating with them “If only you had asked for help a few years ago – everything would have looked different”<\/strong>.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Suffering and disharmony in relationships are the emotions’ way of telling us that there is a ground for growth, something to learn, to develop into, a new ability<\/strong> to discover perhaps and a different angle to observe through.<\/span><\/p>\n

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When a couple neglects to care and cultivate their communication skills on all levels \u2013 the relationship rot and over time grows, this may very well lead to separation<\/strong>.<\/span><\/p>\n

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However, if you choose to remember that when it is difficult, when it hurts, you can ask for help.<\/strong> There are many wonderful professionals who are there just for you.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Then you will discover that love is a process that we learned, day by day, hour by hour<\/strong>, and the more we invest our time in learning about loving communication in relationships, the percentage of divorces will decrease, and we will see more smiling people.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n[\/vc_column_text][vc_column_text]\n

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So when you are going through time of crises and pain<\/strong> in a relationship – ask for professional help! don\u2019t remain a lone with your pain and difficulty.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Search for your own unique path through a workshop, a book, a therapist, a women’s circle \/ men’s circle, a friend, a friendship to bring remedy to the pain and bring harmony and joy back into your home.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

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Amen<\/strong>.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column][\/vc_column][\/vc_row]\n

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