{"id":12271,"date":"2023-05-22T12:32:21","date_gmt":"2023-05-22T09:32:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/?p=12271"},"modified":"2023-05-22T12:32:21","modified_gmt":"2023-05-22T09:32:21","slug":"you-lead-at-my-pace","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/en\/you-lead-at-my-pace\/","title":{"rendered":"You lead at my pace"},"content":{"rendered":"
[vc_row el_class=”lefttoright”][vc_column][vc_single_image image=”12183″ img_size=”860X495″]
<\/div>
\n

You lead at my pace<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n

 <\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>[vc_empty_space height=”18px”][vc_column_text]\n

\n
\n

The oldest and most inaccurate misconception in the realm of sexuality is the belief that men or male energy should be the ones leading the act of love<\/strong>. It is presumed that they know what to do, and it is the rhythm of male energy that determines the movement while female energy adjusts to it.<\/span><\/p>\n

<\/div>\n

However, the reality is quite different.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

<\/div>\n

When men with dominant male energy take the lead, many women who possess dominant female energy are trampled under the excessively intense rhythm imposed by the men<\/strong>. It’s akin to having a set of drums (symbolizing male energy) and a triangle (symbolizing female energy) playing harmonious music together. If we want to hear the triangle, the drum system must adjust and attune its rhythm to accommodate with the triangle, allowing it to be heard.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

<\/div>\n

Only the rhythm of female energy can truly guide an act of love. This occurs naturally when the feminine energy is provided with a safe space to express itself<\/span>\u2014<\/span>a space free from expectations, pressure, and tension.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

<\/div>\n

Why should you allow female energy to lead the act of love?<\/span><\/p>\n

<\/div>\n

Because female energy is more subtle, rounded, slower, and less forceful in its essence.<\/strong> The waves of female energy guarantee a prolonged and profound experience of sensual and erotic pleasure, creating the potential to open the heart<\/strong> and foster a sustained flow of love.<\/span><\/p>\n

<\/div>\n

When male energy<\/strong> takes the lead in the act of love, it often fails to attend to the desires and needs of female energy<\/span>\u2014<\/span>not because it is insensitive or domineering, but simply because male energy alone cannot lead an act of love.<\/strong> Conversely, when a male takes the lead at a female pace, everything changes for the better.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

<\/div>\n

You lead ~ at my pace.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column][\/vc_column][\/vc_row]\n

<\/p><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

When men with dominant male energy take the lead, many women who possess dominant female energy are trampled under the excessively intense rhythm imposed by the men. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":12185,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[59,84,138,129],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12271","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog","category-blog-en","category-couples","category-intimacy","category-59","category-84","category-138","category-129","description-off"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\nYou lead at my pace - Conscious Intimacy<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"When men with dominant male energy take the lead, many women who possess dominant female energy are trampled under the excessively intense rhythm imposed by the men.\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/en\/you-lead-at-my-pace\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"You lead at my pace - Conscious Intimacy\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"When men with dominant male energy take the lead, many women who possess dominant female energy are trampled under the excessively intense rhythm imposed by the men.\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/en\/you-lead-at-my-pace\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"Conscious Intimacy\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:published_time\" content=\"2023-05-22T09:32:21+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:image\" content=\"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/hamburg-1508635_960_720-\u05d0\u05ea\u05e8-\u05d0\u05e4\u05e9\u05e8\u05d5\u05ea-\u05e9\u05e0\u05d9\u05d9\u05d4-1.jpg\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:width\" content=\"480\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:height\" content=\"480\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:type\" content=\"image\/jpeg\" \/>\n<meta name=\"author\" content=\"Dorit bar\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:label1\" content=\"Written by\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data1\" content=\"Dorit bar\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:label2\" content=\"Est. reading time\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data2\" content=\"2 minutes\" \/>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\/\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":\"Article\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/en\/you-lead-at-my-pace\/#article\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/en\/you-lead-at-my-pace\/\"},\"author\":{\"name\":\"Dorit bar\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/#\/schema\/person\/1efea60fa5bceab5d01c9beb4fb1b74c\"},\"headline\":\"You lead at my pace\",\"datePublished\":\"2023-05-22T09:32:21+00:00\",\"mainEntityOfPage\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/en\/you-lead-at-my-pace\/\"},\"wordCount\":373,\"publisher\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/#organization\"},\"image\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/en\/you-lead-at-my-pace\/#primaryimage\"},\"thumbnailUrl\":\"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/hamburg-1508635_960_720-\u05d0\u05ea\u05e8-\u05d0\u05e4\u05e9\u05e8\u05d5\u05ea-\u05e9\u05e0\u05d9\u05d9\u05d4-1.jpg\",\"articleSection\":[\"Blog\",\"Blog EN\",\"couples\",\"intimacy\"],\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\"},{\"@type\":\"WebPage\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/en\/you-lead-at-my-pace\/\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/en\/you-lead-at-my-pace\/\",\"name\":\"You lead at my pace - Conscious Intimacy\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/#website\"},\"primaryImageOfPage\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/en\/you-lead-at-my-pace\/#primaryimage\"},\"image\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/en\/you-lead-at-my-pace\/#primaryimage\"},\"thumbnailUrl\":\"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/hamburg-1508635_960_720-\u05d0\u05ea\u05e8-\u05d0\u05e4\u05e9\u05e8\u05d5\u05ea-\u05e9\u05e0\u05d9\u05d9\u05d4-1.jpg\",\"datePublished\":\"2023-05-22T09:32:21+00:00\",\"description\":\"When men with dominant male energy take the lead, many women who possess dominant female energy are trampled under the excessively intense rhythm imposed by the men.\",\"breadcrumb\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/en\/you-lead-at-my-pace\/#breadcrumb\"},\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"ReadAction\",\"target\":[\"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/en\/you-lead-at-my-pace\/\"]}]},{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/en\/you-lead-at-my-pace\/#primaryimage\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/hamburg-1508635_960_720-\u05d0\u05ea\u05e8-\u05d0\u05e4\u05e9\u05e8\u05d5\u05ea-\u05e9\u05e0\u05d9\u05d9\u05d4-1.jpg\",\"contentUrl\":\"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/hamburg-1508635_960_720-\u05d0\u05ea\u05e8-\u05d0\u05e4\u05e9\u05e8\u05d5\u05ea-\u05e9\u05e0\u05d9\u05d9\u05d4-1.jpg\",\"width\":480,\"height\":480},{\"@type\":\"BreadcrumbList\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/en\/you-lead-at-my-pace\/#breadcrumb\",\"itemListElement\":[{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":1,\"name\":\"Home\",\"item\":\"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/en\/\"},{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":2,\"name\":\"You lead at my pace\"}]},{\"@type\":\"WebSite\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/#website\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/\",\"name\":\"Conscious Intimacy\",\"description\":\"Conscious sexuality is a method of empowering passion, eroticism and love\",\"publisher\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/#organization\"},\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"SearchAction\",\"target\":{\"@type\":\"EntryPoint\",\"urlTemplate\":\"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/?s={search_term_string}\"},\"query-input\":{\"@type\":\"PropertyValueSpecification\",\"valueRequired\":true,\"valueName\":\"search_term_string\"}}],\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\"},{\"@type\":\"Organization\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/#organization\",\"name\":\"Conscious Intimacy\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/\",\"logo\":{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/#\/schema\/logo\/image\/\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/logo_heb_Dorit-1.jpg\",\"contentUrl\":\"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/logo_heb_Dorit-1.jpg\",\"width\":140,\"height\":110,\"caption\":\"Conscious Intimacy\"},\"image\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/#\/schema\/logo\/image\/\"}},{\"@type\":\"Person\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/#\/schema\/person\/1efea60fa5bceab5d01c9beb4fb1b74c\",\"name\":\"Dorit bar\",\"image\":{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/#\/schema\/person\/image\/\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/ab72ac5daf0f9581b7725ef23d6ec0b7?s=96&d=mm&r=g\",\"contentUrl\":\"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/ab72ac5daf0f9581b7725ef23d6ec0b7?s=96&d=mm&r=g\",\"caption\":\"Dorit bar\"}}]}<\/script>\n<!-- \/ Yoast SEO plugin. -->","yoast_head_json":{"title":"You lead at my pace - Conscious Intimacy","description":"When men with dominant male energy take the lead, many women who possess dominant female energy are trampled under the excessively intense rhythm imposed by the men.","robots":{"index":"index","follow":"follow","max-snippet":"max-snippet:-1","max-image-preview":"max-image-preview:large","max-video-preview":"max-video-preview:-1"},"canonical":"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/en\/you-lead-at-my-pace\/","og_locale":"en_US","og_type":"article","og_title":"You lead at my pace - Conscious Intimacy","og_description":"When men with dominant male energy take the lead, many women who possess dominant female energy are trampled under the excessively intense rhythm imposed by the men.","og_url":"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/en\/you-lead-at-my-pace\/","og_site_name":"Conscious Intimacy","article_published_time":"2023-05-22T09:32:21+00:00","og_image":[{"width":480,"height":480,"url":"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/hamburg-1508635_960_720-\u05d0\u05ea\u05e8-\u05d0\u05e4\u05e9\u05e8\u05d5\u05ea-\u05e9\u05e0\u05d9\u05d9\u05d4-1.jpg","type":"image\/jpeg"}],"author":"Dorit bar","twitter_misc":{"Written by":"Dorit bar","Est. reading time":"2 minutes"},"schema":{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org","@graph":[{"@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/en\/you-lead-at-my-pace\/#article","isPartOf":{"@id":"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/en\/you-lead-at-my-pace\/"},"author":{"name":"Dorit bar","@id":"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/#\/schema\/person\/1efea60fa5bceab5d01c9beb4fb1b74c"},"headline":"You lead at my pace","datePublished":"2023-05-22T09:32:21+00:00","mainEntityOfPage":{"@id":"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/en\/you-lead-at-my-pace\/"},"wordCount":373,"publisher":{"@id":"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/#organization"},"image":{"@id":"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/en\/you-lead-at-my-pace\/#primaryimage"},"thumbnailUrl":"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/hamburg-1508635_960_720-\u05d0\u05ea\u05e8-\u05d0\u05e4\u05e9\u05e8\u05d5\u05ea-\u05e9\u05e0\u05d9\u05d9\u05d4-1.jpg","articleSection":["Blog","Blog EN","couples","intimacy"],"inLanguage":"en-US"},{"@type":"WebPage","@id":"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/en\/you-lead-at-my-pace\/","url":"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/en\/you-lead-at-my-pace\/","name":"You lead at my pace - Conscious Intimacy","isPartOf":{"@id":"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/#website"},"primaryImageOfPage":{"@id":"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/en\/you-lead-at-my-pace\/#primaryimage"},"image":{"@id":"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/en\/you-lead-at-my-pace\/#primaryimage"},"thumbnailUrl":"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/hamburg-1508635_960_720-\u05d0\u05ea\u05e8-\u05d0\u05e4\u05e9\u05e8\u05d5\u05ea-\u05e9\u05e0\u05d9\u05d9\u05d4-1.jpg","datePublished":"2023-05-22T09:32:21+00:00","description":"When men with dominant male energy take the lead, many women who possess dominant female energy are trampled under the excessively intense rhythm imposed by the men.","breadcrumb":{"@id":"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/en\/you-lead-at-my-pace\/#breadcrumb"},"inLanguage":"en-US","potentialAction":[{"@type":"ReadAction","target":["https:\/\/doritbar.com\/en\/you-lead-at-my-pace\/"]}]},{"@type":"ImageObject","inLanguage":"en-US","@id":"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/en\/you-lead-at-my-pace\/#primaryimage","url":"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/hamburg-1508635_960_720-\u05d0\u05ea\u05e8-\u05d0\u05e4\u05e9\u05e8\u05d5\u05ea-\u05e9\u05e0\u05d9\u05d9\u05d4-1.jpg","contentUrl":"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/hamburg-1508635_960_720-\u05d0\u05ea\u05e8-\u05d0\u05e4\u05e9\u05e8\u05d5\u05ea-\u05e9\u05e0\u05d9\u05d9\u05d4-1.jpg","width":480,"height":480},{"@type":"BreadcrumbList","@id":"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/en\/you-lead-at-my-pace\/#breadcrumb","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Home","item":"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/en\/"},{"@type":"ListItem","position":2,"name":"You lead at my pace"}]},{"@type":"WebSite","@id":"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/#website","url":"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/","name":"Conscious Intimacy","description":"Conscious sexuality is a method of empowering passion, eroticism and love","publisher":{"@id":"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/#organization"},"potentialAction":[{"@type":"SearchAction","target":{"@type":"EntryPoint","urlTemplate":"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/?s={search_term_string}"},"query-input":{"@type":"PropertyValueSpecification","valueRequired":true,"valueName":"search_term_string"}}],"inLanguage":"en-US"},{"@type":"Organization","@id":"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/#organization","name":"Conscious Intimacy","url":"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","inLanguage":"en-US","@id":"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/#\/schema\/logo\/image\/","url":"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/logo_heb_Dorit-1.jpg","contentUrl":"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/logo_heb_Dorit-1.jpg","width":140,"height":110,"caption":"Conscious Intimacy"},"image":{"@id":"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/#\/schema\/logo\/image\/"}},{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/#\/schema\/person\/1efea60fa5bceab5d01c9beb4fb1b74c","name":"Dorit bar","image":{"@type":"ImageObject","inLanguage":"en-US","@id":"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/#\/schema\/person\/image\/","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/ab72ac5daf0f9581b7725ef23d6ec0b7?s=96&d=mm&r=g","contentUrl":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/ab72ac5daf0f9581b7725ef23d6ec0b7?s=96&d=mm&r=g","caption":"Dorit bar"}}]}},"publishpress_future_workflow_manual_trigger":{"enabledWorkflows":[]},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12271"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/13"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12271"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12271\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":12273,"href":"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12271\/revisions\/12273"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/12185"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12271"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12271"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/doritbar.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12271"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}